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Wednesday, November 09, 2011 at 10:00:00 AM

9 November 2011

Ur life reflects upon the choices/decision you choose to take. It is not a matter of making the right decision or not, but it matter on whether you choose to stick by it. Sometimes it is good to be stick by your own decision doesn't means it will always be right. A wise person will take into account others opinion while making his/her decision. Whether it is to ultimately make the decision always lies with you and not with others. While some are stubborn and choose to stick with the decision they have made whether it is right or wrong, but sometime it might be wiser to pry into or consider the future and decide whether it is best to make sacrifices and cut the losses by retracting the previous decision by making another one. As i mention, life is about making choices, making a bad choice doesn't means that is the end of the world for you, it is whether u r wise enough to adapt to the circumstances and try to compensate for your previous mistake or make a better decision. The problem in life are never easy, and it is the method of solving these problems which makes one different from the less!

7 November 2011

everyone has their own perspective in life, sometime they may share the same or common goal, but they have different ways of implementing them. everyone believes that they are right and often argument occurs because one person is trying to convince the other that their perspective is wrong. However who is the on that determines who is truly at fault? Who gives the authority or power to judge others? If everyone is equal, they should be allow to judge for themselves what is right and wrong and not adhere to others version. If we only blindly follow what others tell us, we do not possess any leadership quality, as such we depends on others to be successful in life. There is no harm in listening to advices, the outcome only comes from acting upon it. While some advices may be beneficial to you, but there are also advices which are not. In the end the decision is up to us to judge which path or perspective we want to follow. It is this decision we make that distinguish oneself from another. Whether we choose the correct decision or not, we could only learn from it, nothing more nothing less. For dealing with our mistakes and getting over regrets are also one of the leadership quality we need to ascertain to be successful in life!

6 November 2011
Suffering and Hardship goes hand in hand with Accomplishment and Joy for without either we will not know the true meaning behind them. In order for ur to enjoy our life or feel a sense of accomplishment, we need to work hard and suffer first in order to build our foundation for a better future. Vice versa if we don't work hard and only enjoy all the time, we would suffer in the future and therefore we would be in despair rather than joy!
Even if u were born rich like the life of a king, if ur whole life has only been groom to enjoy and spend money... in the end without working one day the money would run out... However if u r poor, but u work hard, u might be able to change ur star and ur life... Our life, fate or destiny is not written down in stone not carve in history. Furthermore this is not like ancient time, therefore we have the option to choose the path of life we want to lead. It is not pre-determine by god nor chance nor anything cosmic-mystical event. As long as we want something, we need to work hard to achieve it! Whether it is study or working, as long as we pour our heart into it, there is definitely reward in the end!

4th novermber 2011
My life has always been a one man journey in a way, i do meet friends from time to time, and also learned to trust some of them. However i believe that each person would still requires to travel alone sometime, because not all paths will necessary lead to the same journey. As i journey through the valley of darkness alone, i discovered that life was not as complicated as it seems. It is the addition of other factors into the equation which makes life complicated. Unnecessary emotions and conflicts which could be avoided... If only life were that simple... But 1 thing is for sure, i could rely on some good friends i met over time...

I know my quotes or words are a bit rusty after all i never wrote a inspirational post nor emotional post for so long!

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