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Life and Romance
Wednesday, September 22, 2010 at 6:18:00 PM

Why do we need romance in life?
Why do we need to be in a relationship?
Is life really better when u have another person in your heart?
Isolating the world because there is only the two of you.

Is she/he really the one for you?
What happen if you get your heart broken?
Who will hold you up during those depressing days?
Breaking up and saying your goodbyes is the hurtful most things that you experience in life.

Some people don't believe in romance because they do want to get hurt,
But who are we to blame them?
If we can't even control our own life,
are we suppose to decide the fates of others?

Life is complicated because of relationships,
the relationship we have with our family and friends,
and also the relationship with have with our lover.
Often the most complicated relationship are with our lovers.

Problems do arise from time to time,
because no one person are equal.
They have their differences,
and often it results in argument over who is right?

You might be meant for each other,
but that doesn't mean there won't be conflicts in our relationship.
Often those that are ignorant about it that are the one that have unstable relationships,
thats because without tolerance and sacrifices,
a relationship will never work.

Pondering on one's mistakes doesn't change the facts in life,
Rather than regretting over the decisions you have made,
Learn from it and move on with life.
The beauty of life is that you might not be able to change the past,
But you can sure change your future.

Learning from your past mistakes are valuable assets in life,
Because experiences could not be bought with money.
It has to be forge over time and some time it requires great sacrifices,
which it turn mold and forge you into a better and brighter person,
which will eventually lead to you being successful in life.

If no one dares to get hurt in life,
You will never succeed in life.
Because no matter how you try insulate yourself from life,
You will still be hurt whether by your own doing or other factors,
because you are just a human which have feelings.

It takes courage to prepare yourself in the face of imminent dangers,
because you need to get ready to make sacrifices in life,
whether it will be beneficial or hurtful to you.
So that you will eventually be able to reap the fruit of success in life.

If you never give up in life,
Eventually you will succeed in the end.
Because the journey of life is an endless one,
there can be no winner or loser in life,
Only survivors of life itself!

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Life
Sunday, September 19, 2010 at 4:48:00 PM

If only life was that simple as it seems,

I won’t be sitting here thinking about it.

My life is so complicated as i saw it,

Maybe because of the decisions i have made?


Sometimes i do wonder why life is so boring?

Sometimes i wonder why i am trap within my own boundaries.

Sometimes i think my life was planned,

From the beginning of my journey.


Life is about the choices we make,

The decisions we made in life affect our life.

The sacrifices we have made,

The time we have spent,

Determine how our life is shape.


If Life was as simple as seems,

I won’t be so stress out.

If only my life was simple,

I won’t be so miserable.

If only i can choose...


The true freedom lies in the choices,

The random acts we used to take.

Without any planning or preparations,

The only we can enjoy life to the fullest.

Because in life it doesn’t work always as we have planned.


Life might sometimes bring you down.

No matter how high you can stand,

You are not invisible.

Because you are just a human,

And life has a way of bringing you back down.


If you truly appreciate life as it is,

You would not have complained how tough life could be.

But appreciate life at it is.

Things can come and go in life,

But those special moments that happen in life will forever stay in your heart and thoughts.


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Greed is a Necessity of life
Tuesday, September 14, 2010 at 5:56:00 PM

Greed is a necessity of life as stated by Michael Douglas in Wall Street 1987,

Greed for the lack of a better word is good,
Greed is right,
Greed works.
Greed Clarify, cut through and captures the essence of the evolutionary spirit.
Greed in all of its forms breath the life from money, from love, from knowledge has mark upward surge of mankind.
And greed... You mark my words will not only save Taldar paper and the other malfunctioning cooperation of the USA.

Quoted from Gordon Gekko (Michael Douglas) From Wall Street (1987)

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Although Greed maybe a seven deadly sin,
But most can't deny that Greed is necessary in life.
Without Greed there won't be ambitions.
Without Greed there won't be Hope.
Regardless to say without Greed you will never get rich!

If Greed is all source of evil,
then isn't wealth, power and money the same?
If life as we speak are as pure as what we perceived,
All of us would have been living in a societies of lies.
No one can survive in this world without Greed!

The temptation of greed is the one that drives you,
Force you to do things which you may not like,
Torture you to the point of exhaustion or stress out,
So that your beautiful dream of living in paradise might come true.
It is all down to greed that drives a person not your will power!

If greed is a necessity of life why would it be a deadly sin?
It is because too much greed is not good for life!
You may be able to achieve something out of greed,
But sometimes you might be compelled to do what ever it takes,
even if it were to commit crimes or illegal acts to succeed in life.

There must be a balance in life in everything you do,
overdoing it might lead to unwanted consequence,
because everything you done in life can be held accountable!
Every sacrifices or decisions you made will eventually determine the path of your life.
Therefore any mistakes you make in life will eventually comes back to haunt you in 1 form or another.

Greed might be necessary evil in life,
But it is our conscious that keep every thing in our life in check,
So that we do not make any undesirable mistakes in life,
which we would live to regret later on in life.
Because the beauty of life itself is that nothing is impossible in life!

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Depressing day...
Thursday, September 09, 2010 at 10:30:00 PM

If only life work as i planned,
my life won't be turn upside down in an instance.
Sometimes i do wonder what are the use of plans if they never work out?
I should just follow my feelings every time instead of wasting my time planning,
since the things i plans so far always backfire on me.

I have grown tired of all this "let downs" in life.
If i do not need to expect anything,
then i wouldn't be upset about anything.
I would be just live a carefree life,
How great will that be?

If only there are chances in life that work out for me,
I wouldn't be here depressing about my life.
If only life is a smooth sailing in the open sea,
My ship would not have capsize some many times making me wet.
But what i do fear the most is actually drowning in life itself.

I have asked myself why do i have to live through this miserable life,
But until today i still do not have the answer to that question.
The only thing that is keeping me alive is my fear of death itself,
Taking one life is not as easy as it may seem,
because no matter what method u choose,
you will still have to suffer before you die.

There are no shortcuts in life,
every path of life might eventually lead you to your destination,
however during the journey you might have to make countless sacrifices before you succeed,
some which eventually will defines or shape your ideal or values in life.
In the end it comes down to whether you control your life or your life controls you.

In today society most of the people life are being control,
It is only the rich and the powerful that control life itself.
But that is only the minority of the world population,
because Majority of us still have to follow rules and abide by life itself.
Brain wash since we were young by the concept of civilization,
but in fact we were just living by a set of rules made by the Masters of life!

I believe everyone had their own hardship or stress in life.
However i do wonder what would be more stress than being lonely?
Sometimes it will be just great to just hang back and relax with some friends,
It sure beats the hell of being alone.
Because as a human we do need to socialize with others even though sometimes we need our space alone.

If only life is not as harsh as its appears to me,
I would be happy everyday and wouldn't be depressed about it.
But somehow not every wish will come true in life no matter how much faith you have.
Because life is full of disappointments as it is a life learning process.
You are never too old or young to learn about the facts of life.

The only thing cheerful in life are rainbows
because i believe somewhere over the rainbow,
my happiness lies there...





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Managing your stress
Wednesday, September 01, 2010 at 3:29:00 PM

Life can be stressful at times,
Just by living today alone can be stressful.
It could be due to self-induced stress or other form of stress,
But it is all down to how u manage your life.

Some people have a carefree life,
while others are stuck in their own world of stressful environment.
We might not be able to choose our family background,
but we can definitely choose the path of life we want in the future.

You might be born from the slum,
but that doesn't mean you are destined to live there.
If you strive hard and try your best,
eventually you will be rewarded for your effort.

Think of life as the same as alchemy.
Something have to be sacrifice in order to gain something of the equivalent value.
You might not notice it but every decisions you make has a sacrifice,
whether it is good or bad it depends on the situation.

The higher your ambition,
the more stressful you are making yourself.
You can be a workaholic and get rich,
But that doesn't mean you be happy with the lifestyle you have.

There must be a balance in life,
between your social life and work.
Those people that can manage their life well,
are often those that are stress-free and happy with their life.

As a student you are destined to study.
You do not need to be the top student,
But as long as you understand the knowledge that is passed on to you,
Then there is no reason why you can't enjoy life and have fun when you are studying.

Some might not like what their doing or are forced to,
But look at it at a brighter side of life.
If life is really that stressful as we speak of,
then lots of us have enter the asylum or ended our life as we speak.

What you do in life does matters.
Whether you made a mistake in life,
or you achieve something.
It is all your life experiences and moments you gain in life.

Treasure every moments of your life,
because you do not want to regret later on in life.
Sometimes it is better to be safe than sorry,
because that time it will be too late to apologize or regret about it.

Do not look back into the past,
instead look towards the bright future.
Because you can't change the past,
but you can definitely change your future.


P.s:
Everything in life can be stressful,
however it all depends on you and how you deal with it.
You can't avoid stress,
but at least you can be prepare for it and also if you manage it well,
You can still have fun in life!


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